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Book #8 Learning By Heart

February 13, 2011 by Merry 3 Comments

Learning By Heart was another library pick, another one I was pleased to bring home and discover is written by someone, Elizabeth McGregor, who has consistently good reviews on Amazon.

This is the book that referred to glass blowers in Murano, is set half in Italy, has two time lines and is about love affairs and lost children across the years. It has also, just for the record, a family with four sisters and a younger brother, marriages in jeopardy and is in fact threaded with a theme of synchronicity, of people just happening to meet people and be in places at the right moment ๐Ÿ˜† Oh, and it has a couple with a young son and infertility to go along with it. Oh yes, and it starts with a mourning parade on Good Friday. You have to laugh.

So, you know ๐Ÿ˜‰

I was surprised by how much I was drawn in to this; although it is essentially a book with 2 female characters at the centre, they are relatively hard to know; the book captures both at a ‘moment’ in their life and both are a little adrift in a mess of life and emotions. The story is told more by the 3 men who love them, two husbands and a lover. The plot unravels more of their lives –ย  infidelity, infertility, loss and grief, love and rejection – than it does of the women. It is quite refreshing in a way (and I recognised something of one of them too, which made it all the more compelling) and certainly a different take on a well established format. It was subtly done and all the people and places felt very real, even if it was just a snapshot of lives.

The book is, essentially, the story of Cora and Zeph, at turning points in their life. It follows Cora through her first move from home, the shocking reality of being a single young woman in London and then the change that a safe and ordinary marriage brings. Half of the book is the journal of a man who loved her and the descriptions of Sicily really made me want to pack up and go immediately. I’ve got a feeling Italy is telling me I need to visit. For Zepf, the book is about finding her courage when her marriage fails and finding out more about her mother and everything that was hidden from view in her life.

I’d give this 8/10. I’m not sure I would need to read it again, or own it, but I’ll certainly read more by the author and I don’t hesitate to recommend. A very enjoyable read.

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  1. Sarah says

    February 14, 2011 at 10:26 am

    Not sure where to post this but a book that I surprised myself by enjoying and I suspect (though may be very wrong) that is as far off your radar as it was mine is ‘first light’ by Geoffrey Wellam. It’s the boy-man story of a fighter pilot in ww2. Yes I know sounds boring but is beautifully written and the real human story behind a historic event which is the slant on history that I like. Only read it as a last resort on honeymoon as had read all the other books and this is what my other half had taken along and really glad that I did. If you’re trying new authors would recommend you give it a go.

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  2. Jenn says

    February 14, 2011 at 7:34 pm

    Thanks for all the book recommendations lately, I’m always looking for a new good book to read. I’ve been putting in requests to my library for some of them and just yesterday picked up Washington Square.

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    • merry says

      February 14, 2011 at 8:24 pm

      Jenn, I was thinking maybe I should add babyloss safety levels ๐Ÿ˜‰

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